Sunday, October 3, 2010

My Own Different Marketing Style

Ever since I was a little boy, I've always been fond of meeting and being around people. As I grew up to my teenage years, I began to develop more social skills by building up personal relationships with them. I gotta say, I was quite successful in persuading them and making them believe in what I say. So how did I do it? Well, its starts with appearance first because not only does it bring confidence in you but it attracts people to see whats in you. Once you've got their attention, make the initiative by being the first to talk or smile back because doing nothing and being quiet wont bring you as far as talking could. Show them that you are a nice and down to earth person despite having an extravagant entrance with your looks. Seal it by controlling the conversation, not by telling them all about yourself but about hearing what they have to say, giving them your feedbacks and your own personal advices. Make them see that you are not like others. It is not easy to do this but it is not impossible. You are going to have to balance your time by setting priorities first such as health, spend a little time on the gym and eating right foods because then again ourselves is the most important investment in the business world. Take time to be with other people, learn from them and adjust to their living standards so that you can learn how to be with other kinds of people in this world. Once you've developed that relationship with them they will consider the things that you say or suggest because you've got that trust from them. Always be truthful to them and be true to the words that you say because from what I've learned from my classes so far is not only building profitable relationships but building relationships that would last for a long time. Make the most of out of everything you do because you have nothing to lose but everything to gain. People may I say that I'm lucky with this because of the experiences I've gone through but I consider this as a talent and attitude of being true to myself. I am confident enough to say this because I have done this a lot before and it worked to the point that they even try to wear the same brands of clothes that I wear just to be like me.

5 comments:

  1. To exude confidence is a very special skill. It's got to be a tricky balance though; you're confidence could be mistaken for arrogance or complacent pomposity. You should work on that.

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  3. One of the first things I noticed about you was your great style John, but I agree with Esteban in that it is a tricky balance. There are so many people who come off as very pretentious when over excuding confidence.

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  4. I very much appreciate your feedbacks and yes, it is a tricky balance and I really do believe that nobody is perfect. Therefore, my point is that people should always be and try their best in everything.

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  5. John, this is what i love about you! You are not scared to show people who you really are. I do agree with Esteban though. Just be careful that your not coming off as conceded.

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